Sunday, April 23, 2006

 

WARNING: Graphic violent content re child abuse

The following is PAINFUL just to read about, much less to have had endured. Day after day there's a story of such abuse of a child who was supposed to have a "better life' through adoption. I get tired of posting them all...but it never ceases to amaze me that this is some mother's baby girl who was supposed to be saved and rescued by adoption... And, this was a wanted and planned for child by those who made a conscious and deliberate effort to become her parents! And every day there's another, and another, and another....

Former NFL Player, Wife Charged With Child Abuse
April 21, 2006

JACKSONVILLE, Fla. -- Former NFL offensive guard Rich Tylski and his wife were accused of hitting their adopted daughter with a belt, slamming her head on a table and other abuse that left the girl with broken bones in her hands and leg.

The 35-year-old former Jacksonville Jaguars player and wife Jane, 36, were free on $20,000 bond each on the child abuse and neglect charges. They were released Wednesday after turning themselves in. A message left on their home answering machine was not immediately returned and it was unclear if they had lawyers.

The child, whose age and name were not released, was taken to a Jacksonville hospital on March 10 for a fractured right thigh bone. Her parents said she had fallen down the stairs about eight hours earlier.

Doctors found extensive bruising in various stages of healing. A skeletal survey found six or seven healing fractures in the child's hand, the police report stated.

The girl later told investigators that she lied about falling down the stairs and she demonstrated on a doll how her mother had pushed her leg over her head until they heard a pop, the report said. The report also stated that Rich Tylski said he had hit the child with a belt.

The Department of Children & Families told police the girl missed 14 days of school from October to March.

During an interview on March 24, the child told investigators that her mother slammed her head on the table when she would not eat. She said both her mother and father hit her. She said a scar on her forehead was from her mother slamming her head into the table, but denied her mother hurt her leg, the police report said.

In a second interview on April 3, the girl described how her mother would bend her fingers backward.

All Pro Dad, which promotes active fatherhood, listed Tylski as an NFL player involved with the organization on its Web site. A call to its Tampa office was not immediately returned.

A call to the DCF about the case was not immediately returned.

Tylski played the first four years of his career for the Jaguars, then spent four years with the Pittsburgh Steelers and one year with the Carolina Panthers before retiring after the 2004 season.

On the police report, he said he was self-employed. His wife did not list an employer on her arrest report.

Comments:
I apologize for coming so late to this site. Over the past 2 years it has been difficult to keep current comments on all sites. The Tylskis are an example of what is wrong with people who are privileged, self-absorbed and arrogant not necessasarily the adoption process. The child who is (and I use the present tense because the prosecution of these beasts continues to be delayed because of "who" they are) a victim of these people has been adopted by a second family who loves her very much and supports her as she moves through this awful and unfair process of having justice. The Tylskis have described this child as a "liar" with multiple "mental and emotional issues". It is miraculous that none of these issues have surfaced in the 2 years she has been a part of our family. Besides the horrific crime of abuse the Tylskis have inflicted on this child, their comments and defense tactics have hurt countless numbers of older (not infant) children waiting to be adopted. Yes we need to work to make adoption safer and the right thing for all involved, but this girl is now where she should have been all along...with a loving family, fully accepted and blossoming into a wonderful little lady.
 
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