AdopTalk

We need to be very careful when focusing on the pain that adoption loss causes a mother... to be sure that when we stress that, we are very clear that it does not mean we want our children denied their rights because of our pain, or that any of asked for or want anonymity form them.

In vetoing the Connecticut bill that would have allowed acces to adooptees over age 21, Gov. M. Jodi Rell said: "The struggle a woman faces in making the decision to give up a child for adoption cannot easily or adequately be described in a gubernatorial veto message or in the staid language of a state statute."

This is a perfect indication of how our pain and suffering is used against our kids...